My Flirting Secrets

Men and women are different in many ways. They respond in a different way for the same treatment. Men are crazy and stupid and women are shy and silent. Similarly, when flirting they show different signs, lets look up on some. We have divided the signs of flirting between men and women to make it easier for us.

Lets look at men first. It more presence in men. The are more open to these signs of flirting. Their signs of flirting are more expressive. They dress in a very casual attire, wear some very good cologne and carry an attractive prop around them. This is a major sign that indicated that the guy is flirting with someone. Men would ask their female counterparts about what they like to do and about their hobbies, this is a more silent type of flirting. The guy is trying to open up the doors to a lively conversation, where the girl is going nibble everything out. Women always fall for it, as we know once a girl starts talking, that is it. Guys love to touch women, it is a sign of flirting as well. The guy might give a tap on the shoulder or grab your hands. All this can turn into intimacy in the end.

Now, lets get into some of the signs you would see in women. Women will always try to make secret eye contact. If you catch a girl looking at you, when your not looking at her, there is a big sign. They like to come closer to, but never come to admitting it. Eye contact is a major sign, always keep that in your mind. Some women might find an excuse to give out her number, this is a big sign of flirtation. This can come along the lines of “Hey, this is my number, if you need it for…”. If a girl puts out an event in open, something like “Hey, there is a movie playing this weekend, my friends said its awesome”, she wants you to ask her out for it. If a women asks to go out for coffee or lunch, it is surely a sign.

Signs of flirting are always surely a sign that someone just wants to be with you. If you feel he/she is worth the hassle, don’t step back, get in and play your game.

Men love women! Period. They just love the way a woman teases them, the way they move their bottom when they walk, the way that hip moves. What would make them stopping from flirting? Nothing! Its just in them, they have to do it one way or another. There are some tips guys can follow, but it all depends on the way a girl reacts towards the flirtation.

To begin, before even starting to flirt with a girl, guys should understand those messages and signs the girl sends. Sometimes if a girl is wanting to get approached, guys interpret it as a sign of shyness. When a girl feels like wanting to have some time with herself, guys see that as a bright light showing the path to the girl. When beginning to flirt, do not make it obvious that you are flirting. This is because no girl likes to be flirted on, rather a girl would like to be loved and cared about. If, flirting is your way to success, it might be hard to get onto the successful path, she would just not go on with it.

Wear something women love. Women love the way men dress and smell (cologne). Always wear something appropriate and put on some fresh cologne and carry a cool prop. Women love men with aura and charisma. Don’t just look smart, but act smart. Once you get this down, you can pretty much go ahead and flirt with any girl. Girls love to be flirted and pampered by guys like this. A bonus would be carrying an attractive gadget or prop would catch the attention of any girl, and draw them to you. Such things can be something bright and eye-revolving.

Some women are hard to understand. With girls of this type, the trick is talking. Show some concern towards her, this is a proven technique. Make sure you make it real, and your on your way to a date.

Girls love being loved and especially love it when they are center of attention. Flirting with a girl is not always easy, for some it is natural. For others, they would need a helping hand. Some guys think of girls to be a block of sand. To our amusement, girls can be really something, it mostly depends on how they were groomed. When it comes to the techniques of flirting with girls, it really depends on the type of girl in question. Some techniques do not work on some girls. Lets go through each type starting from the cuddled up ones to the popular ones.

Constrained, Cuddled Up Girls: These are usually the smart girls of the school or anywhere. They have some intense education and not everyone can deal with them in terms of flirtation. The trick is to start a smart conversation and maybe bring in some humor, without sounding too corny. If we go to intense with these types of girls, it may get too bad. It is a very smart idea to go slow with these girls.

Regular Girls: These are the regular, some what shy girls. They are not too corny nor too popular. They would love a coffee or like to go to movies, but maybe would disapprove of the idea of holding hands. No one can really tell what these girls like, unless you start a light conversation and build up. Pretend the girl is a friend.

Popular, Open Girls: These girls love to be pampered and want to be the hot spot of the room. They love getting gifts and going out with their man. Start with small gifts and move on. Once you feel the relationship is strong enough, get on with a girls best-friend, a diamond.

The man should understand that the phrase, “how to flirt” means “how to love and be passionate”. In essence, the title of this article really means, how to love a girl.