Having a guy kiss your neck can be one of the hottest things ever. But you can end up turning down the heat if you don’t know what you’re doing. Or if you know what to do, you can use it as an opportunity to turn him on even more.
Chances are if he’s kissing your neck, he’s already highly attracted to you. Maybe he’s returning the favor from the amazing neck kiss you just gave him. In any case, if he is kissing your neck then he is FEELING it for you.
The truth is there is no “right” thing to do when a guy is kissing your neck. You can try any (or all) of the suggestions below. There are so many good options! Just don’t do nothing and make things awkward 🙂
Run Your Fingers Through His Hair
You already love running your fingers through his hair, right? Well this is a great time to do it.
You’ll be sending him a message that you like what he’s doing, and he’ll know he should continue. In fact, you can actually control the way he kisses you by gently guiding his head where you want him to kiss. Or if you like what he’s doing already you can hold him a little more firmly.
Wrap Your Arms Around His Body
If the two of you are standing up you can put your arms around his shoulders. Or if you’re sitting or laying down next to each other, his torso might be more convenient.
The point here is to squeeze him closer to you. Doing this will create a deeper feeling of intimacy between the two of you.
Tilt Your Head To Give Him More Space To Kiss
One of the easiest ways to show him that you like what he’s doing is to move your head so more of your neck is exposed. Try tilting your chin upward to give him more real estate to kiss.
If he’s kissing your neck from behind this will be a little tricky. But in that case what you can do is brush your hair to the side so the back of your neck is exposed. That will encourage him to kiss the back of your neck, which is one of those secretly sensitive spots on your body!
Nothing will get him turned on more than arousing him with touch while he’s kissing your neck. You can build up his anticipation by gently touching different areas of his body. If you’re comfortable with it, you can tease him by almost touching him down there and then backing off at the last second. Or you can start to motion like you’re taking off his shirt or belt, but then stopping short of actually doing it.
Just a word of warning: this will drive him wild.
Use Your Words
It’s not just about what you do physically when he’s giving you neck kisses. You can and should use sound to enhance the mood.
An easy way to do that: talk to him. It doesn’t have to be anything too special or fancy. Just say something simple like: “that feels nice” or, “I’m loving this!”
You don’t even have to use words, really. If you’re truly enjoying being kissed on your neck, feel free to let off a sigh or a moan. That might say a lot more than any words 🙂